Questionnaire
I. This Section Is About Factors Affecting
Your Sexual Satisfaction Within A Relationship.
If you have never had satisfying sex
with a partner within an ongoing relationship,
please circle 0 and skip to the next section, Section J.
If you have ever had satisfying sex
with a partner within an ongoing relationship, please consider the most recent period in your life when you had satisfying sex
in a relationship:
1 a. In this period of my life in this
relationship, the following were usually or always present in my most satisfying sexual
experiences with my partner (Check all that apply.)
Before Sex
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Feeling close to my
partner before sex
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Arguing before having
sex
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Having an alcoholic
drink before sex
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Using marijuana or
another recreational drug before (or during) sex
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Partner and Situation
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Feeling loved
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Feeling safe in the relationships
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Knowing we could take as much time
as we wanted
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Knowing there was no risk of
getting or transmitting a disease
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Knowing there was no risk of
getting pregnant 0
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Being aware that I might become
pregnant
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Knowing my partner would give me
the physical stimulation I needed
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Behaviors and Feelings During Sex
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Talking with my partner during sex
about what we were doing
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Talking about or acting out a
shared drama or fantasy 0000
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Focusing on a stimulating fantasy
of my own 0000
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Feeling really attuned with my
partner during sex 0000
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No pressure from my partner for me
to have an orgasm 000
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No pressure from myself to have an
orgasm
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Being aware that I might become
pregnant
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My partner was accepting of my
desires, preferences and responses 0
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My partner got and maintained an
erection 0
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My partner did not ejaculate
quickly
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Stimulation
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Extended stimulation of other
kinds before intercourse
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Breast stimulation
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Manual stimulation of my genitals
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Oral stimulation of my genitals 00
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Using a vibrator
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Using a dildo 00
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Anal stimulation
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Having intercourse
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Steady, reliable stimulation that
continued through orgasm
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Outcomes
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One or more orgasms
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Simultaneous orgasm
with my partner 000
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Knowing that I gave my
partner a wonderful experience
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Emotional closeness
after sexual activity
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Other (please specify)
1b. In the period of
my life I have been considering for this question I was in my:
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Teens
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20s
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30s
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40s
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50s
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60s
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70s
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80s
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Please DO NOT send your answers to me.
Copyright 1998, Carol Ellison, Ph.D.
